(COLORADO SPRINGS) — Discrete hand signals are credited with helping save a domestic violence victim in California last month. A bystander saw someone doing hand signals, knew what they meant, and called law enforcement. The caller’s quick action resulted in the arrest of the alleged abuser.
Body camera video shows the moment police got the person away from their alleged abuser, following her strategic use of hand signals.
“A lot of times (the hand signals are) behind them, because that’s where the, whoever it is, is not able to see it.” said Mandie Hoehne, Reclaiming Hope‘s Director of Survivor Care.
The ‘Signal For Help’ is meant for victims who cannot speak freely. It was created by the Canadian Women’s Foundation.
“The more that our community can know what it looks like, the more we can be able to save people’s lives if they are using it.” said Gabrielle Jenkins, the Kingdom Builder’s Family Life Center Youth Services Coordinator.
Hoehne and Jenkins are local experts from two separate organizations. They both say it’s important to look out for and be aware of this signal, since circumstances like these are more common than you might think.
“Sometimes 20 calls in a month from separate people,” said Hoehne in reference to the number of calls their case manager receives.
“We have definitely seen an uptick as far as those who are… especially in need of emergency housing. So, you know, they’re currently in the home with the abuser and they need to get out,” said Jenkins, “within these past few months, one of our safe houses is completely maxed out.” she added.
They say it can be extremely difficult for victims of abuse or trafficking to escape or get help, making this signal a valuable and potentially life saving tool.
“Because this may be one of the times they’re actually allowed to be out. And so if they’re with their person all the time, then they can’t say, hey, I need help. And a lot of times they don’t have a phone.” said Hoehne.
If you see someone making the hand signal for help, approaching could put you or them in danger. The experts recommend calling 9-1-1, or telling nearby security or law enforcement.
If you do have a phone, and need a discrete way to get help, you can call 9-1-1 and pretend you’re ordering a pizza.
“(Operators are) able to get (the victim’s) address, able to get basic information on how they can address the situation.” said Jenkins.
“You know, ‘tell me you want pepperoni on it if you’re not safe’.” Hoehne added.
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